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Beyond Victory: The Unseen Lessons Beyond Boxing Victories

January 22, 20245 min read

Champions aren’t made in the gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them – a desire, a dream, a vision.” – Muhammad Ali

Victory for Megan

In the electrifying world of boxing, victory is often synonymous with triumph, glory, and success. Fighters spend countless hours honing their skills, pushing their bodies to the limit, and strategizing for that moment in the ring when their hand is raised in triumph. However, true champions understand that even in victory, there are valuable lessons to be learned by looking for failures. In this article, we delve into the mindset of boxers who go beyond the celebration of a win to dissect their performance and seek improvement.

I was so excited, I won my match soundly, no contest. I returned to the gym pumped up and was greeted by the high-fives, fist bumps and handshakes of all my gym rat friends who came to the fight and saw me win. But that excitement faded quickly when my trainer walked in. He came in with a scowl on his face, looked me up and down and started listing off all the things I did wrong. “You telegraphed your cross; you didn’t fully step in on that hook; you need to get under her punches.” He continued with what seemed like an unending list of failures. When he finally stopped, I looked at him and said, “Uh, you know I won that fight, right?” his response was simple: “Yeah, but if you don’t fix these errors, you won't win the next one.”

This is when I learned that the fight doesn't end when the final bell rings. One of the most effective ways to identify areas for improvement is to review the fight meticulously. By reliving the moments of the bout, boxers can pinpoint both their strengths and weaknesses. Analyzing footwork, defensive lapses, missed opportunities, and successful combinations provides a roadmap for refining their technique.

The lessons I learned from my wins and losses have shaped me into who I am today. Teaching mental resilience, discipline and self-confidence. I hope that by sharing what I learned in the ring with you, you can apply some of these lessons to the fight you are in now.

Celebrating Small Victories: While the overall victory is undoubtedly a cause for celebration, it's crucial for boxers to recognize and celebrate the smaller victories within the fight. Did you successfully execute a new technique you've been working on in training? Did you effectively counter an opponent's signature move? Acknowledging these micro-successes helps build confidence but also highlights areas where further refinement is needed. What small victories did you accomplish today? Maybe you finished that proposal, email or made that call you have dreaded. Did you book an appointment, get the kids to and from school, and get something healthy to eat? Take a pause and think about something you can celebrate right now.

Embracing Humility: The best boxers understand the importance of humility in their journey. Even in the face of a resounding victory, there's always room for improvement. This was the hard lesson I learned that day with my trainer. Embracing humility allows us to stay grounded, acknowledging that no performance is flawless. This mindset fosters a continuous hunger for growth and self-betterment, not just in the ring but in all things.

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Seeking Feedback from Coaches and Peers: The relationship between a boxer and their coaching team is integral to success. After a win, seeking constructive feedback from coaches and peers is essential. Coaches, with their keen eye for detail, can provide insights into areas that may have been overlooked. Peer input can offer a different perspective and valuable suggestions for improvement. I was extremely blessed to have amazing coaches who were not afraid to tell me like it was, and I was surrounded by a great group of peers who would help me work the drills in the ring that I needed to improve. Even now, I still embrace coaching and peer support. I joined organizations like Vistage and got a sales coach and a business coach to help me learn from my successes and many failures as I grew this organization. One of my favorite sayings is, “Even Coaches NEED Coaches.”

Maintaining Mental Toughness: Beyond the physical aspects, boxing is a sport that demands mental fortitude. Champions understand that losses and wins are part of the journey. Maintaining mental toughness involves not letting a win cloud judgment or a loss shatter confidence. Instead, it's about approaching each outcome with a clear mind, ready to learn and adapt. I can’t tell you how many potentially great boxers quit after their first fight because they lost. One and Done boxers. I see this with my clients, too; they try a workout program, a diet program, or a corporate wellness program, but they do not get the results they expected and give up. It takes time to find the right program. You need to be patient and stick with the process, but that takes mental toughness to see it through.

Setting New Goals: Every victory should be a stepping stone toward new goals. Whether it's refining a specific skill, moving up in weight class, or facing a challenging opponent, setting new goals keeps the fire burning. By constantly pushing boundaries, boxers ensure that complacency has no place in their journey. One goal that my trainer set for me was to box in a regular stance. I fought southpaw (left-handed). After several fights, people learned this about me, so my trainer challenged me to change my stance and throw my opponent off. This was extremely challenging, and while I am comfortable enough to do ring drills and spar in my opposite stance, I do not feel like I have ever mastered it enough to fight that way. Sometimes, setting scary, big, audacious goals is exciting. Approach it with the best of intentions; don’t just go for the low-hanging fruit. Go big!

In the unforgiving arena of boxing, the pursuit of excellence extends beyond the glory of victory. True champions understand that wins and losses alike are opportunities for growth and learning. By adopting a mindset that seeks out failures even in triumph, boxers can elevate their performance, ensuring they evolve into not just winners but enduring legends in the sport. How can you adopt this mindset and apply these lessons to your life?

If you need help, a coach, or a peer, reach out to me, and I will be happy to assist you in setting some big goals, finding the right program, and achieving greatness. [email protected]

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After experiencing burnout working long, stressful hours in the tumultuous oil and gas field, Megan decided to break out on her own and focus on health and wellness. Megan found a passion for teaching and coaching physical well-being but recognized the need to build mental resiliency in her clients, leading her to study positive psychology. Megan brings her passion for wellness back into the corporate environment by working with leaders to transform company cultures to focus on employee health and wellbeing.

Megan has studied various topics, from creating exercise and diet plans to building mental resiliency, understanding behavior change and creating engaging corporate programs. This led her to create Life Force Wellness LLC, a corporate wellness organization focusing on work-life balance and seven distinct areas of well-being. Megan has a B.S. in Business Administration with a concentration in Marketing and a minor in psychology. She holds certifications as a personal trainer, health coach, nutrition coach, corporate wellness specialist, positive psychology practitioner, stress management, sleep and recovery coach.

Megan Wollerton

After experiencing burnout working long, stressful hours in the tumultuous oil and gas field, Megan decided to break out on her own and focus on health and wellness. Megan found a passion for teaching and coaching physical well-being but recognized the need to build mental resiliency in her clients, leading her to study positive psychology. Megan brings her passion for wellness back into the corporate environment by working with leaders to transform company cultures to focus on employee health and wellbeing. Megan has studied various topics, from creating exercise and diet plans to building mental resiliency, understanding behavior change and creating engaging corporate programs. This led her to create Life Force Wellness LLC, a corporate wellness organization focusing on work-life balance and seven distinct areas of well-being. Megan has a B.S. in Business Administration with a concentration in Marketing and a minor in psychology. She holds certifications as a personal trainer, health coach, nutrition coach, corporate wellness specialist, positive psychology practitioner, stress management, sleep and recovery coach.

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